Here’s the story of all of us….. How do you really like to feel when your loved one is around you? It is not judged through the gifts you receive, things they do, places they take you to- but with the real emotions mingled with love.
Will who has spent a very happy marriage life with Alicia and currently divorced, rich to the top level, having a very attractive appearance – but physically paralyzed due to an accident took place years back, was taken care by Louisa Clerk hired by Will’s mother.
What is the truth relatable to us?
That doesn’t have to be exactly Louisa Clerk or Will Trainer, but let’s take it to our level. Why are we building our nests in another person? The answer is totally because we feel safe, comfortable and loved by them.
But do we really feel what we need to feel?
Most of us don’t. William who was the husband to Alicia, was abandoned after he met up with the accident and got paralyzed, and therefore Alicia built her home in another person, Rupert. At the mean time Patrick, boyfriend to Louisa, doesn’t care what she really needs to be felt with him. But lately the care taker, Louisa was found amazingly
Isn’t this the reality? Broken glasses cannot mend…
Do we really care how the other person would feel because of the things we say or do? Do we really bother that the other person would feel bad because of the things we say or do? isn’t that the common lack that we all have within nowadays relationships that pave it’s way to endless heart breaks and emotional break downs? But we may find that missing piece within another person when we become so late. So that accordingly we get no choice rather than repenting.
But I say NO!
Because even if we found that missing piece within another person, do we really get that attitude that other than leaving the person, compromising and discussing will lighten its way to the threshold of new beginnings?
So let’s not try to search our missing pieces within others, let’s try to find it within our own loved ones. Listen well, watch and observe the other person well, then you’ll feel the magical feeling called “love”. If you found a Louisa, try to be a William to her and if you found a William try to be a Louisa to him. Don’t ever be a Patrick or a Alicia.
Those who have watched “Me before you” will understand the magical story behind what I’ve told.
So that I should say,
In lots of lover’s lives today there is a William or a Louisa,
Or else there have been one,
Or else you have missed that William or Louisa at some point.
“So let’s not try to search our missing pieces within others, let’s try to find it within our own loved ones.”
ReplyDeleteI love this statement as it really sums up how we should love someone. People try to find someone else or their attention when they feel like they are missing something. Mostly out of boredom or need for a change, they try to go for other people instead of searching for it in their own loved ones. If you actually pay attention and observe them you will feel that there is the missing piece you have been looking for in them. Because after all, it is love that made you together.